J, Five years ago today, I married you under that celestial dome in San Francisco City Hall. When I woke…
On Letting Go (Or Not) / A Third Letter to My Husband
J, I’m in bed in the tantra community in Dorset that is my current home, watching the drizzle fall over…
On Letting Go (Still)/ A Second Letter To My Husband
J, I’m on the bus back from St.Louis now. We just crossed the Mississippi River so I guess that means…
3 Years
Today is my third birthday. 1096 days sober. I’ve rightly fallen off the blogosphere since my last post. Reason being,…
Week #1 in Vietnam – Journal (unedited)
11/30/17 Life is so bizarre. I feel about a million times lighter than I did exactly twenty-four hours ago, when…
The Pros + Cons of Being Sober in Thailand
I’m leaving Thailand. I can’t quite believe it, to be honest. I kind of hadn’t thought that this day would…
10 Days at a Monastery – Things I’ve Learned
I went to a monastery up north of Pai for ten days – Wat Pa Tham Wua on the road…
Weeks 3-6 of Travel – Things I’ve Learned
Weeks #3-6 – Things I’ve Learned 1. The value of community. Traveling alone, I naturally thought I’d be spending a…
Week #2 of Travel: 10 Things I’ve Learned
There are no mistakes. I know this to be true, and try to live by it in daily life. I think…
Week #1 of Travel: 10 Things I’ve Learned
I’m traveling solo through South East Asia for six months. Here are ten things I’ve learned in my first week…
Sober Bean 